Looking for support for yourself or someone you care about can feel like a major step, but there is more than one way to find sober support.
Across New Jersey, people can connect with 12-step groups, self-help groups, peer support groups, family support groups, mental health groups, online meetings, and local helplines. Some focus on alcohol or drug use, while others are intended for family members, caregivers, young adults, adolescents, or people with specific recovery needs.
This article explains the sober support options available for you throughout the state of New Jersey.
It is for informational purposes and should not replace medical advice, therapy, or emergency care. If you or someone you know is in immediate danger because of addiction or a mental health crisis, contact an emergency or crisis resource right away.
SAMHSA defines recovery as a dynamic process of change that occurs over time and results in improved health and wellness, enhanced quality of life, and an improved ability to pursue life goals.[1]
But recovering from a substance use disorder is much more than discontinuing its use. You also need to build a life with new habits and new routines, and that is very difficult to do without connection.
Most people leave a substance abuse treatment center with new goals and desires. Unfortunately, they often return to the same stressful situations and habits they had before seeking treatment. This is where support groups can help.
Support groups provide a structured environment where people can openly communicate with one another, hear experiences similar to their own, and establish relationships not based on substance use. This peer support is especially beneficial because the bond created between people with similar experiences can create an ideal base for the helping relationship in behavioral healthcare.[2]
In simpler terms, that means it helps to be with people who have gone through experiences similar to yours. Peer support can provide a sense of responsibility and accountability, emotional support, practical strategies for coping with challenges faced in recovery, and reassurance that recovery is possible even when things get difficult.
There is no “best” support group for everyone. What works best for a person typically depends on their belief system, daily routine or schedule, past substance use, current mental health status, and comfort level.
Below are some popular options for a support group that fits you.
Substance use disorders affect not just the person using substances, but also their loved ones and family members, who often experience feelings of anxiety, anger, guilt, exhaustion, and confusion.
Getting the right support can allow family members to establish healthy boundaries, better understand substance use disorders, and learn how to stop enabling behavior.
In many ways, attending these support meetings can serve as a form of relief for caregivers. You do not need to know what you are going to say before you attend. You can listen first, ask questions later, and take away whatever is helpful for you.
You can find local meetings by using each organization’s meeting directory website and searching for your town, city, or ZIP code.
If you are in Marlboro, for example, you could look up nearby meetings in Monmouth County. Someone commuting for school, work, or outpatient care might search New Brunswick, Newark, Jersey City, South Jersey, or a location close to public transportation.
If you’re not sure where to begin, contact NJMentalHealthCares. This is New Jersey’s behavioral health information and referral service. It connects callers to services like legal assistance, housing, employment, rehabilitation, inpatient and outpatient services, self-help resources, and other support you may need.
It is also worth checking out if the meeting you plan to attend is “open” or “closed.” An open meeting welcomes anyone interested in the program, while a closed meeting is generally limited to people who identify as having an addiction problem or, depending on the group, family members affected by addiction.
While some meetings are designed exclusively for specific populations, others may include adults who struggle with addiction and their family members.
Meeting details can frequently change. Contact the sponsor or group leader before visiting a meeting to verify the meeting time and format.
Your first meeting may feel awkward. Don’t worry; this is perfectly normal.
Most meetings have an organized flow, however, and once you take your seat, you can expect a logical flow of introductions, readings, a speaker, open sharing time, a topic to discuss, or a small group conversation. Some meetings may have a professional facilitator, while other groups are peer-led. Some meetings might seem very formal, while others feel more casual and conversational.
Typically, you do not have to say anything. You might choose to introduce yourself briefly or just listen to what is being said, depending on how your meeting flows. People usually attend multiple meetings before determining which support group best fits their needs.
The tips below can help make your first meeting feel a little smoother:
A meeting doesn’t have to fit you perfectly to be helpful, however. Sometimes just hearing one helpful thing from someone can be enough to help you get through your day.
Long-term sobriety is made up of many repeated decisions, not just one big one.
A key reason support groups are helpful is that they establish a rhythm.
Having a weekly meeting, a phone number for a fellow member or sponsor, a peer, or a place that feels safe and comfortable can all contribute to creating a sense of community that becomes part of someone’s support system.
Support groups can also help people recognize the potential for relapse earlier than would otherwise happen. For example, if someone begins to isolate themselves, skips meetings, starts romanticizing previous substance use, or shows signs of extreme emotional overwhelm, peers may notice these behaviors and try to help the person reconnect with care.
For people in the early stages of recovery, this type of peer support can make a huge impact in keeping them from returning to substance use.
Many professional treatment programs recommend continued involvement in support groups and ongoing care once formal treatment is concluded.[3] This is because transitioning out of clinical treatment can be difficult. Clinical treatment provides symptom stabilization, healthy coping mechanisms, and support for underlying mental health issues. But once treatment is over, those supports are gone. This is why peer support is so valuable; it can help people continue to practice these new ways of handling life.
Support groups can also create opportunities for growth as people learn how to ask for help, rebuild damaged relationships, celebrate accomplishments, develop tools to cope with stress, and manage everyday aspects of life without using substances.
While support groups can be effective, there are situations where attending group meetings alone is not enough.
Medical or professional intervention may be required when someone is having withdrawal symptoms, has relapsed, is living with unaddressed trauma or mental health conditions, has an unsafe living environment, or is experiencing psychiatric symptoms.
In these cases, New Jersey’s official mental health resource website offers links to emergency assistance, crisis services, and behavioral healthcare providers that include:
SAMHSA’s National Helpline, 1-800-662-HELP (4357), is also available 24 hours a day for free and confidential treatment information and referrals for people and families affected by mental illness or substance use disorders.
Support groups can help you stay connected. Treatment can help you stabilize, understand what is happening, and build a stronger plan for recovery.
If you find yourself needing more addiction support than what a support group can provide, that is okay, and there is help available.
Discovery Institute in Marlboro, New Jersey, specializes in treating addiction and mental health issues for people looking for clinical help and structure. Reach out today. Our admissions staff is available to answer your questions, verify your insurance, and help you decide what your next step could be.
Our compassionate counselors are standing by to answer any questions you may have. After helping thousands of people over the last 50 years, we have the resources to help you and your family and all your individual needs.
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